We think the number on the scale is the end all be all! Who hasn’t thought, if I could just fit into that smaller size dress everything will be great.
I have to admit I fall victim to this mentality as well but I am actively trying to change my perspective. I am trying to look at a larger picture of my wellness so I have a complete view of what is going well and what still needs improvement so I can move forward on my wellness journey. How can we do this? Read below!
Make a list of health concerns you currently have and would like to address.
Do you normally suffer from joint pain or muscle aches? Does your hair not grow very quickly or your nails are weak? Is sleep a constant issue? What about your digestion? Do you rarely go to the bathroom? Is your urine a very dark yellow? What about your skin? Is it often dry or do you regularly have rashes? To me, these are all signs that something is not functioning well in your body. Your overall wellness is imbalanced. So if you are only focusing on the number on the scale it doesn’t necessarily mean you will feel good even if that number goes down. You still may have joint pain or you still may have low energy levels. I believe there is a better approach to addressing the concerns of weight gain. In fact, I am in the midst of addressing this right now for myself.
I will admit I have gained a few pounds recently that I’m not happy about at all. I was starting to beat myself up, which is all too easy to do. Then I decided to stop myself and evaluate some other things about my wellness. I have always had terrible nails. They were weak. I used to bite them and pick up my cuticles constantly. I have just noticed this summer how strong my nails are and how frequently I have to cut them, something. This is a sign that something is in balance in my body if my normally weak nails are strong and grow quickly. I have also noticed my skin isn’t as dry. It does help that it is summer and the humidity levels are higher but mineral sunscreens and chlorine in pools can be drying and I’m not reaching for the lotion as often as I normally have to this time of year. Again, this is a sign that something is going right in and is well balanced in my body.
It is important to recognize the positive takeaways and go on from there. It doesn’t mean I’m happy that I’ve gained a few pounds but it shows that I am doing a few things right and now I can focus on what is going wrong. I can do that without beating myself up and negatively affecting my progress.
So where am I going wrong?
Vegetables. I don’t think I’m eating enough fibrous vegetables which are key to good digestion because they help build up the good bacteria in your gut. It’s summer, gardens are flourishing, it should be easy to get lots of vegetables in my body. I need to focus on trying to get an additional vegetable on my plate for both lunch and dinner.
Alcohol. It’s summer. It’s warm. You see friends, you’re out and about. I've honestly indulged in a few too many glasses of rosé. Cutting back is something that I know I can easily curb and instantly see positive results. Partially because it means I will consume fewer EMPTY calories. I also know that no or less alcohol will improve the quality of my sleep. Pro-tip…a rose or white wine spritzer is a great way to have a cocktail but not get out of control.
More MOVEMENT! I have committed to improving not only my exercise but also increasing my daily movement. I tend to work out five days a week and have always thought that was enough. I’m not sedentary on the weekends. Normally there are multiple dog walks and some yard work and other work around the house but I don’t think it is enough if I want to lose those few pounds. This doesn’t mean I’m going to start running 10 miles a day but it does mean I’m going to pick up two extra workouts a week, being sure to incorporate some different types of exercise such as HIIT or yoga classes. I am not going to stress out about it too much, just commit to two additional 20-30 minute workouts each week. If I go too big, I will just set myself for failure.
I believe these three tweaks to my routine will help me feel better and in turn, help the number on the scale go down. It is worth a shot and all of these changes are healthy and can only make me feel better. I am NOT focusing on extremes, which never work in the long run because of burn out. I am focusing on manageable, healthy change so I achieve manageable, healthy results.
Do you want to make long lasting changes that move your overall health in a positive direction? Are you sick and tired of feeling sick and tired? Maybe it’s time you try a new approach to managing your health, a functional approach that gets to the root cause of your symptoms and allows you to heal. Always feel free to reach out to me, your FNTP.
UPDATE 7/20/21: I started writing this blog over a week ago. I have been incorporating these changes for just over a week as well. I am down 5 pounds. To be clear, I do not think this is all "real weight" I have lost, i.e. some is excess water. I do KNOW it is extra "junk weight" from too much alcohol. Incorporating extra veggies is also helping with my digestion to improve my elimination. More movement never hurts either!
Baby steps do lead to big changes!!